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Stop Treating Every Click Like a Contract: How to Read Your Database's Digital Body Language

November 13, 2025 written by Lauren Hoffman-Noark, Content Marketing Manager

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You know the feeling. A notification pops up — a new "lead" from your website. You call, ready to help, only to be met with a familiar, deflating line: "Oh, I was just looking." For years, agents have been told this is a numbers game, that success comes from grinding harder and making more calls. However, what if the problem isn't a bad lead, but a misunderstood signal?

We recently hosted an insightful three-part webinar series with master communicator and sales expert Phil M. Jones, where he taught agents how to guide conversations to create curiosity, uncover true motivation, and ultimately convert. A core theme was that top-performing agents understand a fundamental shift: their value is no longer in being a knowledge broker with access to information. In a world where data is a commodity, an agent’s true power lies in providing insight, and explaining what all that data means for their clients. Your job is to help navigate the chaos, guiding people through the messy, emotional journey from the home they have to the life they want.

To do that, you need to learn to read the Digital Body Language of your database.


From Clicks to Clues: A New Way to Interpret Prospecting Signals

Digital Body Language is just a way of describing the trail of online signals your contacts leave that indicate their level of interest. Just as in a real-world conversation, not every signal means the same thing. You wouldn't ask someone to marry you after a single glance across the room, so why treat a single email open as a request for a listing appointment?

  • An email open isn't a sales call; it's a polite glance.
  • A click on a link isn't an inbound lead; it's a nod of interest.
  • A home value check isn't a request for a CMA; it's them leaning in, curious to learn more.

The mistake many agents make is treating every signal as high-intent, causing them to push for a transaction when the prospect is only ready for a conversation. This creates friction and damages trust. The key is to stop pouncing and start interpreting.

How Fello Translates the Signals for You

Manually tracking the digital body language of hundreds or thousands of contacts is impossible. This is where technology becomes your indispensable partner. Fello acts as your personal translation tool, turning vague online activities into clear, actionable insights.

  • Fello Provides Context: Before you can interpret a signal, you need to know who it's coming from. Fello automatically connects to your CRM and enriches your contacts with missing addresses, property history, loan data, and equity information, giving you a complete picture of each homeowner.

  • Fello Interprets Behavior: Fello’s AI doesn't just see a click; it understands what it means. It tracks how many times a homeowner views their consumer dashboard and other demographic and behavioral data to create a comprehensive Lead Score. This score helps you instantly distinguish between a casually browsing contact and a high-intent prospect who is signaling they're ready to sell.

  • Fello Ensures Timeliness: You receive real-time alerts when a contact's behavior changes, acting as a gentle tap on the shoulder that now might be the right time for a personal touchpoint.

The most successful agents don't just have more conversations; they have the right conversations with the right people at the right time. By learning to read the digital body language of your database, you can shift from a reactive mindset to a proactive strategy, meeting your clients where they are and guiding them with confidence.

Ready to stop guessing and start knowing who in your database is ready for a conversation? Book a demo to see how Fello decodes the signals.

Already a customer? Talk to your Success Manager about leveraging Lead Scores to prioritize your outreach.