Stop Justifying Your Fee: 3 Steps to Confidently Position Your Value
November 20, 2025 written by Lauren Hoffman-Noark, Content Marketing Manager
In our recent three-part webinar series with sales expert and master communicator Phil M. Jones, we explored how to guide conversations to create curiosity, uncover true motivation, and convert. One of the most significant challenges agents face is the dreaded "commission conversation." Many agents get defensive and immediately jump to justifying their fee.
The mistake most agents make is trying to prove their worth by listing all the things they do. This giant list approach actually invites negotiation, because a client will inevitably feel they don't need all of those services, so why should they pay for them.
The key is to stop justifying your fee and start positioning your value. Value is not a comprehensive list; it's a specific solution. It's about showing the right facet of your expertise to the right person at the right time.
Here is a framework to help you do just that.
1. Define Your "I Help X Achieve Y"
Instead of a generic title like "Full-Service Real Estate Agent," you need a specific value proposition. The clearest way to do this is to identify your "X" and "Y".
- X = The People You Help (e.g., first-time buyers, empty-nesters, investors)
- Y = The Problem You Solve or Goal You Help Them Achieve (e.g., navigate a complex market, downsize, build wealth)
When you can say, "I help young families in this neighborhood (X) find their perfect home without the stress of a bidding war (Y)," you've moved from a commodity to a specialist.
Examples of this we’ve seen:
- Aging-in-Place Specialist
- Certified Divorce Real Estate Expert® (CDRE)
- Luxury Listing Specialist
- The Investor’s Real Estate Agent
2. Understand Their Buying Trigger
Not all client problems are created equal. There are generally a hierarchy of needs: Immediate, Urgent, Important, Essential, and Aspirational.
Many agents make the mistake of selling to the "Aspirational" need (e.g., "I'll get you the highest price ever!") when the client has an "Immediate" need (e.g., "I have to move for a job in 30 days"). If their problem is speed and certainty, your "highest price" pitch is irrelevant. You must solve their most pressing problem first.
3. Connect Your Value to the Four Factors
Once you know who you're helping (X and Y) and their most pressing need (their trigger), you can position your value by connecting it to one of four key factors: Money, Time, Risk, or Status.
Your fee is no longer a cost but an investment when you can confidently state:
- Money: "By working with me, you're not just paying a fee; you're investing in a strategy that my data shows will net you more money than the 1% you might save elsewhere."
- Time: "You're a busy professional. My value is giving you back your time. I'll handle the chaos so you can focus on your job and family."
- Risk: "I've done this 13 times in the last 12 months for families just like yours. My value is not in what I do when things go right; it's in what I know how to do when things go wrong."
- Status/Identity: "We've become specialists in helping families in this neighborhood sell discreetly and for maximum value, without the headache of telling the neighbors."
How Fello Helps You Position Your Value
This framework is powerful, but it requires data. You can't identify a client's X, Y, or Trigger by guessing.
- Fello Helps You Find Your X and Y: Fello's data enrichment instantly gives you context. You can see a contact's equity, loan data, and time in their home. This helps you understand who they are and what problems they probably have (e.g., a contact with high equity + 10 years in home = potential move-up buyer or downsizer).
- Fello Identifies Their Trigger: Fello’s behavioral tracking is your trigger detector. Is a contact checking their home value dashboard daily? That's not "Aspirational" — that's probably "Immediate" or "Urgent." This tells you to lead your conversation with solutions for Time and Risk, not only Money.
With Fello, you can stop using a generic, one-size-fits-all listing presentation and start having precise conversations about value, tailored to each homeowner's unique situation.
Ready to have smarter, more confident value conversations? Book a demo to see how Fello's data makes it possible.
Already a customer? Try segmenting your database by identifying the X, Y, and buying triggers to uncover more opportunities. Talk to your Success Manager if you run into any snags!